More I live more I believe in Eternal Love. Not the whole; Passion, marriage, Love forever... though Love in its deepest meaning, the true Love.
Love transcends time and obstacles like distance. Well, truth love does.
I am not taking about romantic or passionate love though the true love. I love deeply my grandmother (and this comes from many and many past lives experiences I am sure), also deeply love other people whom are thousands and thousands miles away from me right now. Distance never seemed to be a problem it has never diminished our feelings for each other.The amazing fact is that doesn't matter the distance our relationship, our chemistry never changes. Every time we see each other (sometimes with periods of over a year without seeing each other) feels like we had met the day before.
Also the connection never ends between those who truly love each other. For an example; a friend of my, Marcia, whom I know since I was six years old. Many and many times we met during our sleep. Yes, we met in our dreams. Whenever we need a advise or support from each other we always find out whilst sleeping. I remember that this intensified when I moved to the UK ten years ago. A very good example was one day I spent the whole night dreaming with her, she was crying and having some problems with the boyfriend at the time. I could see her sat on her bed, crying and calling me. On the following day when I got to work I called her just for piece of mind to discover that she had actually spent the whole night crying duo problems with the boyfriend. She also mentioned words she had said the night before such that I had seen all whilst I was sleeping. These sort of scenarios happened so many times between Marcia and I. Also happened with other loved ones too. I remember feeling the sorrow of my grandmother the nights before my grandfather passed away, I remember been communicated in my sleep about the suffering of loved ones... Of course... not just sorrow though share of happiness and good news too.
So yes, True Love transcends time and distance... Connections never ends between those whom are connected by Love.
Those who truly love you wants your happiness and vice-versa. Don't never trust someone who doesn't seem happy on celebrating one of your greatest achievements because the true Love is happy to know you're progressing and succeeding.
I never worry about passion and romance...because I know that everything changes in Life...You might end up to find out that perhaps you don't have nothing in common with the person you have been connected to for a while or vice-versa. You might decided to go a different way (again, vice-versa) and this is completely normal. The idea that we should commit to a single person to the rest of our lives comes from hundreds of years ago and I believe humankind has progressed enough to know that this sort of arrangements only bring sorrow and imprisonment. One side will always be unhappy, at least one person in the relationship will always be keen to try different worlds...different experiences (I am talking Life in General). And to this is normal because we were created as individual spirits who are here to progress through different experiences our spirits. In my mind, you chose to share your life experiences with someone else and learn and progress together until it gets to the point you need to change in order to experience new things.
True love isn't a commitment, truth love isn't a obligation. Truth Love is a free energy that enables you as an individual to connect with others with the same vibration as you enabling you and those around you to progress and evolve.